The Friendship Page Advice Forum

[ii_k3k3_ii]

Well.....My friend and her boyfriend broke up.....and well they got into a fight cursing at each other at recess at school. And well my friend told me not to talk to him, so I tried it for 2 days and well now he is calling me a fake. So I wrote my friend a letter (I didnt say it in person because the first sentence I say she'll say dont talk to me) but anyways I wrote her a letter saying how I still wanted to talk to him, and well I said its better that I'm being a good friend by being honest by not going behind her back talking to him (cause I asked if its ok to talk to him) and well we were in the Guidance office and so when she was done reading it we hugged and she said yes. But everytime we get into a fight and then recover again thats the only special moment we have, cause then she starts to not really talk to me and starts to be rude again and whatever. And I hate when she does that its like she doesnt care, she says I'm her best friend but yet she plans things to hang out or whatever with other friends and never asks me to go naywhere then when I say I'm going to the movies with a group of ppl...shes like dont talk to me, like what kind of sence does that make.....I need Help

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[chrisjackson911]

well in this case you dont have many choices. im all about recoving friendships but i cant find the positive in this situation. i think you better off letting it take you where ever it wants. just go with the flow and if the friendship is ment to be then she wont go anywhere and if it wasent then you will see her drifting away and at that point dont try to grab for her. leave her to decide what she wants to do with her life.

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