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Vinayako · Posted: Mon Jul 19, 2010 5:15 pm Post subject: any ideas whats going on?

ok i have this friend that i fought was my friend but i dont know anything right now everything feels just bad it feels like nobody really likes me.

its like this thia friend i asked him for about a week ago if he and me could met one day and he said that he didnt know untill next week when he was at his moms house so 3 days ago when i know he was at his moms hous i asked him if we could meed this weekend and then he said:

No because im soon going to vecation and one day i have to be with my mom. so i thinked okey another time then and yesterday i asked him what he was going to do this weekend and ges what i answerd. he said tomorow im going to meet a friend (not me then) i i just fought WFT?? but you couldn´t be with me. how can you be with anyone else then??

i didnt say anything to him exept okey but inside i feel so betrayd and lied to.

any opinions about whats going on and anyone who knows how i chould go on and how to tell him hi did wrong??

and on that non of my other friends has ben alble to be with mig on the whola sommer! thats strange it seems lik i dont have any true friends and the few i had doesent seems to be real i dont know what do do anymore everything seems meaningles my whole life is meningless i think:(

pleas help!! feeling so sad and angry right now!! Sad

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chrisjackson911 · Posted: Tue Jul 20, 2010 5:54 am Post subject:

Wow, you are getting upset about nothing. He didnt make a commitment to seeing you. Therefore he doesnt need to. See, ive talked to you about this before: You arent the only one in his life!!!!!!!!!!! He has a life. he has friends and family. You cant expect everyone to jump when you tell them too.

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Vinayako · Posted: Tue Jul 20, 2010 12:51 pm Post subject:

okey so you mean that its ok for him to lie to me about it cuz that what he did he saud he coulnt be with ore anyone else because that i soid about vecation how could he be with any one else then?

and im not forcing other to be with me im asking if the want but they never wont?? why becose im an [moderated] or what??7

or am i supposed to live my life alone? cuz if thats twhats going on i dont know why im still alive cuz livin on my own i sont worth livin for!!!

i know im annoying but it seems lik everyone ses averythin as if it was my own falut i just want to have friends an im doing my best to be one but i dont know whats wrong with me! Sad

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chrisjackson911 · Posted: Wed Jul 21, 2010 12:38 am Post subject:

With this kid, yes he lied to you. But people are always going to lie to you. And personally i lie to my friends once in awhile too. You never going to find someone that will never lie. It wont happen.
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And Nothing is wrong with you!!! Thats what you have to understand!! You wont listen. I've talked to you for the past 6months and you still arent getting the true meaning out of what im saying.

You need to find out who YOU really are! You need to find the right path. And if you stuggling you need to keep going. You cant give up. If you are always alone and sad then obviously you are on the wrong path. It is up to YOU, to find the right path. I nor anyone else on this world can do that for you.

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Vinayako · Posted: Wed Jul 21, 2010 4:44 pm Post subject:

okey thanks but i dont know if i can find the right path now i have to wait untill i get a job an money an can move away from mom and dad and live by my self long way from this smal town where nothing happens. cuz where im living now there is no one i want to be frined with and no one who whant to be my friend and thats the problem all my friends lives far away from my i i could get away from here things would change i know that

but thanks anyway:)

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chrisjackson911 · Posted: Thu Jul 22, 2010 1:32 am Post subject:

Yeah, once you do all that, your gonna relize what im talking about. Your gonna come back online and tell us that you found the path. You gonna be feeling so great! Your time will come eventually for that path to pop up

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Vinayako · Posted: Thu Jul 22, 2010 6:02 pm Post subject:

yes i hope so:)

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chrisjackson911 · Posted: Thu Jul 22, 2010 7:07 pm Post subject:

Yep!

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adrian · Posted: Fri Jul 23, 2010 3:24 am Post subject:

yeah vinakayo, i'm pretty much a loner and i find it hard to find friends too. i'm more reserved in nature and don't have very much to talk about when with a group of people, hence the lack of friends. sometimes i'd spend hours by a river alone feeding mallards. well, about your friend lying to you, it is my opinion that it was just a polite way of saying "no" to going out with you rather than turning it down, unfortunately. or as what chrisjacson says, he has his own life and priorities and he has no obligation to commit into the friendship. life goes on and we need to keep ourselves engaged with activities and i think getting a good hobby can help you reach out to more people who share a common interest with you. hope this helps.

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